Not just BC

It can be a “shit bomb”  (as @Summerhill38 likes to call it) that leaves you feeling like you are covered in a massive pile of it . There’s never a “good time” to get breast cancer is there but rest assured love you can and will climb through the massive pile of toxic waste and hose yourself off stand back up and you will know that you have well and truly kicked the arse hole that breast cancer is in the fucking balls and leave it lying where it belongs,  in the massive pile of shit you will crawl out of.  Do you have any family or friends or a partner for support? Can someone help you with the home schooling? Perhaps someone from the school can help you with that? Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it or take help from others if they offer.  And I’m sure you daughter will do great they all find there feet on their own she will be strong and  indeoemdant don’t worry.  Where abouts do you live? Is there a local support group near you at all? Or do you have a breast care nurse to help you source this info ? There are so many challenges in life and breast cancer is one that none of us need nor want and you have to put your big girl pants on and grow a big set of hairy balls to get through it that’s for sure but there are times when we all just want to have a melt down tell everyone and everything to fuck off as well,  but once you’ve done that you feel between your legs that your big hairy balls are still there and ready to smack bc in the face and then you pull your big girl undies back on and away you go again. It’s ok to feel the way you are but you will get through it and we on this forum will all be here holding your hand. Biggest hug. Margie xx