I think we are all forgetting what this post was originally about. Poor @Hendrix how do you think she’s feeling now. (I will PM you) All she wanted was feedback on an awesome idea and it’s turned into a bitchfest about language. Thank you @Marianne_BCNA for your comments. I think it’s important to have your feedback. But for me personally I swear sometimes a little sometimes a lot it doesn’t make me a bad person or unprofessional. I always try to be supportive to all members on this forum and outside the forum (you lovelies know who you are) and in my work as a nurse and now in my community with my charity work and will continue to do so. If I offend anyone with my language then simply don’t read my posts and please don’t take offence as there’s more to me than that. For example If youre a patient of mine I’ll wipe your arse if you shit yourself, hold your hair back if you vomit, wipe your brow when your hot, hold your hand when you’re scared, and hug you tight when you’re sad. And I bet everyone else that swears on this forum has a heart of gold as well and I’m not going to change who I am for anyone. I’ve personally read things on here that I don’t agree with and I simply just look past it as everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone is an individual with feelings and emotions. And as we know all bc is a VERY emotional and individual time for everyone concerned and their families. And I’m certainly not offended by @Joannie saying god bless just as she’s not offended by myself and @Zoffiel swearing. Let’s just remember why we all joined in the first place. Margie. Xxx