Mum's Recent Breast Cancer Diagnosi

Sorry to hear about your mum.I know how hard it is being the carer.I have been looking after my mum who is also 81(terminal liver cancer)for the last 10 months.I myself have had breast cancer twice-2003 and 2010 and I'm fine now.We have had elderly ladies at this network go through chemo and come out the other side ok.With Hercepton,I know they will check your mum's heart with a cardiac echo ultrasound beforehand.I have not had Hercepton but I believe(from others) that it's quite tolerable.As Robyn said,chemo is prescribed individually and her age/health will be taken into account.Have you ordered the "My Journey Kit"from this network?It's free and will get you up to speed with bc.Do you have a breast care nurse at the hospital?They are a wonderful support.Your mum sounds pretty robust to get through a mastectomy.Once you have seen the specialists and have a plan,you'll both feel a little more positive and in control.It's the waiting and the unknown that does your head in.When your brother arrives make sure you have some time out for yourself so you don't burn out.Blog back here any time for info,support or just to vent your fears.There is always someone here to "chat" with.Big hug, Tonya xx