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jitkai
13 years agoMember
Jitka
Hi,
I'm 36 and recently diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. I have had a lumpectomy and lymphnotes taken out. I start my chemo in two days and I'm petrified of this. Even though I know it has to be done. Can someone please talk to me in regards to this and their experience to see what i should expect.
Thank you
11 Replies
- Dinef0Member
Hi Jitkai, Can't believe another week has passed since I posted to you. Hope things are improving. just think that is one week of chemo you won't have to relive....one week closer to your goal of finishing. Keep going the end of chemo is getting closer. from Diana
- Mich_xMember
Hey Jitkai
I am sorry I have been off line for a few days but would like to welcome you and to wish you luck for your chemo. I am sure you will breeze through it and come out the other side very proud of yourself for your achievement.
It is such a daunting time, build up and the waiting for chemo. The unknown is the hardest part.
I am thinking of you and wishing you well.
Please come and chat with us and let us know how you are going.
Your pink sisters are here for you.
Lots of love always, Mich xoxoxo
- Mich_xMember
Hey Jitkai
I am sorry I have been off line for a few days but would like to welcome you and to wish you luck for your chemo. I am sure you will breeze through it and come out the other side very proud of yourself for your achievement.
It is such a daunting time, build up and the waiting for chemo. The unknown is the hardest part.
I am thinking of you and wishing you well.
Please come and chat with us and let us know how you are going.
Your pink sisters are here for you.
Lots of love always, Mich xoxoxo
- jitkaiMember
Thank you so much for your suggestions. And yes it is good that the insurance is here, so hopefully we never have to go through this again. I know I will survive this like everyone else, but it's nice to talk to woman that are feeling the same as I do. When all this started I fealt so alone. Even though I have the best family support I can ask for. My husband has been wonderfull with all this. And keeps me positive. But when I'm alone you are alone with all the thoughts. So thank you, becouse your email has helped me a lot.
- jitkaiMember
Thank you so much for your suggestions. And yes it is good that the insurance is here, so hopefully we never have to go through this again. I know I will survive this like everyone else, but it's nice to talk to woman that are feeling the same as I do. When all this started I fealt so alone. Even though I have the best family support I can ask for. My husband has been wonderfull with all this. And keeps me positive. But when I'm alone you are alone with all the thoughts. So thank you, becouse your email has helped me a lot.
- jitkaiMember
Thank you so much for your suggestions. And yes it is good that the insurance is here, so hopefully we never have to go through this again. I know I will survive this like everyone else, but it's nice to talk to woman that are feeling the same as I do. When all this started I fealt so alone. Even though I have the best family support I can ask for. My husband has been wonderfull with all this. And keeps me positive. But when I'm alone you are alone with all the thoughts. So thank you, becouse your email has helped me a lot.
- jitkaiMember
Thank you so much for your suggestions. And yes it is good that the insurance is here, so hopefully we never have to go through this again. I know I will survive this like everyone else, but it's nice to talk to woman that are feeling the same as I do. When all this started I fealt so alone. Even though I have the best family support I can ask for. My husband has been wonderfull with all this. And keeps me positive. But when I'm alone you are alone with all the thoughts. So thank you, becouse your email has helped me a lot.
- Dinef0Member
Hi, as you said it is something that has to be done and I guess the best way to get through it is to be thankful that this horrid experience is available to keep us safe. I hated the thought of chemo and cried through most of my first dose. I think the fear of what it might be doing to me was unproportionally exagerated in my mind as when you look around we seem to all survive it.
Be kind to yourself. Do things you can and try to keep in touch with family and friends. I didn't go out into public places as I was paranoid of catching germs when my immunity was so low but I used the internet, facebook and email to keep in touch with friends and family. i watched lots of movies and just being able to have someone else take over the housework or meals is a good idea.
You will get through this. It is a hard road but it will be do-able. The doctors and nurses keep a good eye on you and if you have any problems you should be able to ring them and get help.
Keep your head up and keep positive. This is going to mean you will be able to enjoy life more fully and for many years once it is over.