@"Ally Jay" OMG!!!! Is all I can say after reading that, I am absolutely reeling!! how the hell do you have confidence in that at all?? Im with you totally, get the goddamn Vallium!!!! GRRRRRR Having faith in your Specialist is so paramount and I just cannot believe how flippant she was and not informed. What the hell???!!! really not good enough, especially going into surgery. Honestly if you have serious doubt about her competency in handling your particular case dont be afraid to stop and get a referral to someone else to take it from here, honestly there are others who have done it, this is your life! Id be beside myself if that were my Surgeon who ive had 6yrs now, complete faith in him and anything he says, he is honest, brutal and on the ball and versed on your case entering his appointment. As they ALL should be! Really shocked and annoyed for you! Hugs Melinda xo