It’s Just DCIS, the words of the BCN leaving me feeling like a fraud

It’s definitely cancer, and you’re not by any means a fraud. You’ve had surgery, that’s that. I think she’s trying to make you feel better, so you don’t stress so much since it is cancer, but at the earliest stage. When someone tells you you have bc, you of course start to stress and panic. I’m thinking she’s just joking you will avoid all that as it’s unnecessary. That doesn’t change the fact that it is cancer, and you had surgery and have to now deal with the consequences of it. So you’re definitely entitled to feeling worried and scared, and to check up on yourself.