Hi Dal. Welcome to the online network. We know it's not the easiest space to navigate (we're working on it).
If you want to post a question for the general community, click on the pink Post button and select My blog. The post will appear in the general feed on the front page of the online network.
You can also join a group. We have more than 80 topic-based groups including breast reconstruction, living with secondary breast cancer, male breast cancer, partner support, and more. Some of these are public and some of them are private.
If you need help finding your way around the community, check out our Help & FAQ page or join our Getting Started group.