Hi from mum2jj...16 years on.

Hi all,

Firstly I don't get on to the main forum discussion much these days, between work and being a group leader of the Choosing Breast Reconstruction group.  I've been meaning to pop on for days and share some good news and hope to those newly diagnosed.

It was my birthday last week, and the day before it suddenly struck me.  I was about to turn 63 and was not sure how I felt about it, and then it dawned on me. That very same day 16 years ago (day before my 47th birthday) was the day I first heard the words "you have breast cancer". It's amazing that I am now at the point that i don't think about it all the time, and I had almost slipped into  feeling sorry for myself that I was getting "old". 

I very quickly changed perspective to gratitude! I now have 2 adult children who were primary schoolers at my first diagnosis. I did not think I would get there.  I really have much to be grateful for. My breast cancer story was not always easy.  I had a recurrance 18mths after first diagnosis.  Yep got to do chemo twice and radiation.  Along the way I have lost some beautiful friends and had others go through second diagnosis and mets.  It really is a lottery. However I know how l have been lucky up until now and wanted to share a good news story for those recently diagnosed and those going through a recurrance.

My heartfelt love to all those struggling and I hope my story can encourage those newly diagnosed. 

I vow never to whinge about my age again. 

much love 

Paula xx