@Meex05...There is another organisation called "Mummy's Wish" who give practical help to mothers with cancer and at least one child under the age of 13. Perhaps you could look them up and see what assistance they could offer. The Cosmic Clowns have certainly dished out some awful cards to your family and I wish there was more I could do to help you all. This is truly a bastard of a disease as it destroys not only the person, but the whole family too. Arpie, as usual, has wonderful ideas and knowledge of how much in the 'system' works, (or doesn't work), and her advice is gold. I wish I could give you and yours a big hug, but an electronic one will have to suffice...(((hug))). Ally.
