well Cynthia,
By the time you read this, you will be over the operation part, I was in Adelaide with my father in law who is currently having chemo, but i was thinking of you. I did wear baggy t-shirts etc to begin with, but you know i soon learnt that i was the only one who noticed the difference so guess what, i'm now back to wearing my usual clothes and feeling good about myself. If you have a medical person support (even if it is your doctor, rememebr they can order the berlei bra from bcna for you. they have to order for you so you get the correct size, this is invaluable, as the stuffing can be pulled out and in, and it also has no seams so is great for when you are going through radiotherapy and well, so make sure you get someone to order it for you. Once again, we are all thinking of you and when you feel up to it i'm sure we will hear from you again. Take Care