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Hey MelCertainly sounds like you are doing it tough luvy and I feel for you. I wish that magic wand of mine could do the trick for you. It is so unfair we have to deal with so much day to day stuff on top of dealing with trying our darndest to get rid of this crappy BC or at least bring it under control which it sounds like you are trying to do.Partners just don't know how to deal with these things unfortunately but lean on him where ever and whenever you can and that goes for family, friends, all kind of loved ones. That is one of the reasons why we have them is so they can support us through the tough times, not only the good times.You are allowed to feel grumpy at this time and down and out and unable to keep the house the way you would like it and that is when your partner, family and support should be stepping up to help but if not then ask for their help and if it is not forthcoming then call on someone from Cancer Council who can offer some support. They are there to talk to when you need an ear but they can help in other ways so let them know your problems/issues and I am sure they can offer some suggestions.I am so glad you have wanted to come on here and vent cause we all understand in our own way and feel for you every inch of your journey. Please come back on and share with us what you need to share and hopefully we can help just by being here for you.Thinking of you and wishing you well but please just know we are here for you when you need us.Lots of love always, Mich xoxo