So sorry to see you here, @Cutter - but you are in the right place for any questions & hopefully we'll be able to help you with answers xx
Have you had a family member or trusted friend sitting with you at your appointments? It is a good idea, to have an extra set of ears as it is easy to 'miss bits' at the time - so I recorded mine as well, on my phone. ;)
A front opening set of PJs would be No 1 on the list ... for ease of access to the nurses/Dr after the surgery & ease of getting in & out of too, for showers etc. Check out this post - there is a lot of info (what else to take to hospital with you as well) and other bits on the 'blog' that you may like to check out further along the line. I was only in overnight, so didn't have to worry about clothes too much.
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latestIf you add your 'general area' in your profile - members may be aware of services that may be available to you there?
As you are regional, you could join the Private 'rural & regional' group - are you aware that you can claim petrol & some accommodation costs relating to you travelling to the hospital & appointments afterwards? Just click on the 'groups' (in the middle of the blue banner at the top) and choose Living in Regional, Rural and Remote Areas, then click to join.
Are you thinking of reconstruction as well, or not? There is a reconstruction group & a "Flat Chat'' group as well you could join & ask any questions in total privacy xx
Maybe start freezing some cooked meals in the meantime, for when you are at home again? Accept ANY help that is offered, specially after your surgery as you may not be able to do any lifting, gardening, washing for a little while as you heal xx
take care and all the best xx