Same with me @hendrix. When I was called in for the ultrasound, the girl was trying to chat cheerfully to me while I was already planning how to tell the family and what I was going to do about telling them at work. After the doctor spoke to me and said it was all okay (they couldn't get the previous scans from Breastscreen so she couldn't compare), I burst into tears and the girl who was doing the scans apologised profusely - she knew what I was thinking and that it was probably okay, but she's not allowed to say anything.