One of the things I've noticed since I've been on this forum are various discussions about Breast Care Nurses - who has one, what do they do, whether they're helpful or not, how to access one... etc, ...
When I was first diagnosed I had a lovely BCN but she went on long service leave. The one I have now is not so nice, I've had a lot of questions and the last time we spoke she was quite abrupt with me, which actually left me in tears. I found just basic information which you think they would tell everyone - was not forthcoming from this particular BCN so I always had to ask. My constant questions seemed to really annoy her.