Hi melsev, I think your idea for your bedroom sounds like a great idea. Can your dogs possibly be looked after by friends or family for a couple of weeks? I was super careful with my cat & my mini foxie, as I had drains in after my surgeries. I think if you can explain to your kids in an age-appropriate way, they will hopefully help or be more gentle with you.
My daughters are 13 & 11, they have been pretty good, though I have had to remind them a few times to help out with jobs around the house.
I found a body pillow & the bed to myself helped me to get comfortable, though I only had surgeries on one side. I think a recliner in your room would be a good idea, as if you aren’t comfortable in bed, at least you can just slip into the chair.
It’s been a few months since my surgeries & my chemo brain is making me forgetful, but I’ll rack my brain & let you know if I think of anything else.
Take care, thinking of you x
