Hi all and thank you for your replies. Sorry its taken a while to reply I have had internet issues. Well I am still on 3 days a week dressing changes and went and saw my surgeon and his team 2 weeks ago tomorrow. Spoke to him about double mesectomy and am doing it on the 16 Jan. No reconstruction at all as I am unable to due to problems with the healing and openings. Had another horrible experience with the nurses again at the hospital this time letting some gauze dry on wound and when removing it was ripped and by xmas day had another haematoma on the left breast which did pop and come away, during this time I have had to go back to panadol and ibuprofen 4 hourly which I wasn't on previously. I just can't win! So now just continuing to have dressings 3 days a week until the surgery by blue care as I never want to go back to the nurses at the hospital and I did tell them this. Thank god I have financial support from my parents at this stage. I am just hoping that after the surgery things will be normal ........ fingers crossed !