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Zoffiel
8 years agoMember
@Shorelle you've had an absolute flogging in the last little while. You've got to remember that this is not just a physical event. It is incredibly stressful on a mental, emotional, social and financial level--those bits tend to drop off the radar. None of us volunteer for this shit and there are very valid reasons why --apart from the fact it can kill us--no sane person would want to be in your position.
If you can rest, rest. Don't worry about what you think you 'should' be doing instead. Self care is underrated and its importance only becomes obvious to us after we have ignored it for too long. You've done some tough stuff lately. Marg xxx