Uncertainty about the future - Mum's brain metastasis

Hi Jeska. I'm going to jump in with a medical perspective here. I'm a nurse. I understand your need for information, but your mother's doctors would need her permission to give you any information, due to cofidentiality legislation. The permission would preferably be in writing, so she couldn't later say she hadn't  given permission. 

I hope one way or another, you can get you questions answered. I feel it's important for family to be aware & involved.

take care, Lyn