Hello Jeska,
Firstly I just wanted to say welcome - It sounds like a really tough time for both you and your mum, and I hope the online network can help you to connect and find some of the support you are looking for.
It is certainly not uncommon to have some questions, and there are some good support services which can help to give you some ideas on how to talk to your mum about her diagnosis.
Can I suggest maybe giving Cancer Council a call on 13 11 20 (it's free). They have a confidential telephone information and support line and anyone can call including family and friends. They have specially trained staff who can offer emotional or practical support for you both.
Canteen also offer some information and support services for young people who have a parent diagnosed with cancer. If you did want to find out a little bit more about it, you can find all the information on their website: www.canteen.org.au.
There are many ways for you and your mum to find some support,so please just feel free to get in touch with us should you need any help. I hope that some other women will be continue to jump in and offer some ideas as well.
~Jess
