Thank you, @melclarity for your kind words. I am in the process of getting mum on the forum but She is not good with technology. It took me a couple of days to show her facebook lol god love her! So I'll sign her up and I'll help her through the site. It's a great site and everyone is so supportive which is awesome. It's hard to ask question or advice when people don't know what you're talking about.
We have decided to go private and we have spoken to her health insurance. Like you they will cover everything if she is admited for the day. That's a huge relief on the financial side.
I have spoken to her super and they have agreeed to release 10% as she is near retiring age.
I am wondering if anyone had problems working while on chemo. I know it can be done but my mum is a aged care nurse and more worried about infection that she may pick up.