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Afraser
7 years agoMember
Hi
I am not childless (1 child), but I also was lucky that I did not need much support through treatment. I also had a grown up child - I feel for those trying to handle diagnosis and treatment with young children, too young to fully understand or provide much meaningful help (but lots of love!). Some people with children have also found a lack of empathy and support from those quarters. Like everything with cancer, it's all so variable. Had I been really unwell during treatment, my biggest concern would have been my mother - late 80s, two states away and immobile. Not a candidate for helping me, and no brothers or sisters to assist! But I was OK, she was OK. Luck and cancer are not always incompatible! Best wishes.
I am not childless (1 child), but I also was lucky that I did not need much support through treatment. I also had a grown up child - I feel for those trying to handle diagnosis and treatment with young children, too young to fully understand or provide much meaningful help (but lots of love!). Some people with children have also found a lack of empathy and support from those quarters. Like everything with cancer, it's all so variable. Had I been really unwell during treatment, my biggest concern would have been my mother - late 80s, two states away and immobile. Not a candidate for helping me, and no brothers or sisters to assist! But I was OK, she was OK. Luck and cancer are not always incompatible! Best wishes.