I don't think this network should ever be about comparing ourselves. We are all individuals with completely different lives before, during and after bc. Some of us will never achieve the 'after bc' but are just doing the absolute best living with this horrible disease.
We share our experiences because this is all hard no matter what your situation is. We share our experiences to get advice or just to hear we are not alone. We share our experiences because they might help someone else. We share our experiences to get SUPPORT from others who know just how hard general life can be and therefore how every little (or sometimes big) achievement should be reason to celebrate and KEEP GOING. No one EVER shares an experience to make others feel less.
We all just do our best and that is always enough. One step at a time. We are all at different stages of this 'process' and just trying to live the best life possible after it got derailed by bc. Let's support each other regardless of the different paths we take to achieve that 'best life for us'.
xoxoxoxoxo
