Hi everyone,I’ve been diagnosed with DCIS on October 3rd. Left side.By my next appointment on the 22nd I’m supposed to decide on whether to have a lumpectomy or mastectomy. And then surgery is meant to happen on the 31st.Was anyone else’s doctor this quick in action? I feel like it’s such a short amount of time to try to learn as much as possible to make an informed decision.He also said that I could get an implant, but that’s a whole other thing to think about too. Is a silicone implant covered by Medicare?If I wanted to have a double mastectomy by my own choice, would Medicare cover that as well? (And an implant on that second breast too)I’ve got about a thousand questions running through my head at any time.Thanks for reading.

Hi@FreckledGalaxyIt can all be very fast - i saw my GP about a slightly sore breast on Wednesday, surgeon on Friday, diagnosis confirmed the following Tuesday and surgery the following Friday - 10 days in all.I only had a choice between a partial mastectomy and a full mastectomy, so I found it relatively easy to go for the full mastectomy. You need information from your surgeon about type of cancer, etc to help your decision. As you are no doubt finding, there is a lot of variation in cancer type, treatment and options, so what someone else has had or done doesn't always help. A lot of the information provided already will assist you, but you may need to put together a list of critical questions for your surgeon which will help you decide. Having your say about your body is important, but right at the beginning nearly everyone feels completely overwhelmed, and lacking in information. That's why a list - and another pair of ears to accompany you for your next appointment - is really helpful.If you decide on a mastectomy you may be able to choose between immediate or deferred reconstruction. You don't need to have reconstruction straight away (or at all), which will give you more time to think about options.If you are contemplating a double mastectomy, the important thing is to get as much information as possible as to what your risks are of cancer in the other breast. This too is very variable. In my own case, I decided not to remove the other breast, as I have no family history of cancer, no worrisome gene (at least not one that's been identified yet!) and my oncologist thinks that a recurrence or 2nd cancer is more likely (if at all, it may never happen) elsewhere in my body rather than my remaining breast. I just had my 6 year test, all clear, so feeling pretty good about his advice so far! Again, you may consider a second mastectomy at a later date - in the first few weeks, you are scarcely in a position to know how you will feel about losing one let alone two breasts. Information you receive may result in you feeling confident that treating one breast is sufficient. But if, as some people have experienced, you suffer anxiety over a period of time, you need to take that into consideration too. It's very hard but if you can, try dealing with one thing at a time. That way you can concentrate better on the decision in hand. If you don't have to make a decision yet, there often is no problem about waiting until you can give that problem the attention it needs. Keep asking questions till you get clear answers - there are no silly questions in this game. Deep breaths, you can do this. Best wishes.

@FreckledGalaxy I'm very new to this forum as well but reading everyone's messages has been very encouraging. I was diagnosed on the 10th August, met with the surgeon on the 13th August and she wanted to perform a lumpectomy the following day. For other reasons this was not possible but I ended up having my first surgery on the 21st August. 11 days after diagnosis. I've since had a double mastectomy on the 4th September due to the cancer having spread further than originally thought. It all happens so fast and the roller coaster just doesn't seem to every stop. It's an emotional one that's for sure. But with support from all areas, family, friends, medical, these types of forums, counselling, whatever you need to get by each day, you will make it through. Be kind to yourself and know that you'll have good days and bad. The tears will come, but so will the laughter. I wish you all the very best and sending love and hugs your way xoxo

@FreckledGalaxy Welcome to the forum! By the sound of your post you are in a world of who the, what the! One of our ladies on here @soldiercrab has put together this information:Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet. It can be a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time. The what and how thread. http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/the-what-and-how-thread/p1 Breast Care Nurses https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx My Journey Kits and other resources. https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/ BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258 If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258. The Helpline is open Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9 am till 5 pm EST and Tuesday and Thursday from 9 am till 9 pm EST. How to understand your pathology reports https://www.cancer.org/treatment/understanding-your-diagnosis/tests/understanding-your-pathology-report/breast-pathology/breast-cancer-pathology.html Also, https://www.bcna.org.au/understanding-breast-cancer/types-of-breast-cancer/and consider joining one of the groups for further informationhttps://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstructionThere's a bit to absorb but once you have your My Journey Kit and taken a few deep breaths you will be able to better understand and others will come on here and help you throughTake care

Hi @FreckledGalaxy,Welcome to the forum. You will find a wealth of knowledge and warmth on here. If you're lucky things move quick. Less time to worry yourself into a tizz.I had my surgery pretty much a month from diagnosis. I could have had it within the week but I wanted a lumpectomy so we had to chase around and find the primary tumour as it was being a pain in the butt to locate.It's a hard choice to make for some. Mine was dead easy, I just wanted to avoid a mastectomy if at all possible, no questions, no doubts. Some people choose the other, some choose to remove both and reconstruct or not. It just depends on how you feel about it. Keep asking questions. There will always be someone on here that has been down the same or similar path to give you some insight.xoxoxo

Hi @FreckledGalaxy, my diagnosis to surgery was 9days. I felt overwhelmed by the quickness of it all but was pleased to get on with things, there are so many decisions to make initially its normal to feel anxious. I'm now 5weeks post op after double mastectomy (by choice). It was always a no brainer for me that i would have a double and i don't regret it. I had expander implants at the same time, and once I've finished my chemo they'll be swapped to nice soft ones. I feel good when i go out with the reconstruction been done. My surgeon told me that medicare covers both breast removal, he worked in both systems. Take care

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Welcome to the forum! By the sound of your post you are in a world of who the, what the! One of our ladies on here @soldiercrab has put together this information:

Below are a couple of links to help you find your way around the forum and also how to find a breast care nurse and how to order a MY journey Kit if you haven't got one yet.

It can be a whirlwind when we first get a diagnosed.... Breathe and take it one step at a time.

The what and how thread.

http://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/14879/the-what-and-how-thread/p1

Breast Care Nurses

https://www.mcgrathfoundation.com.au/OurMission/OurNurses/FindANurse.aspx

My Journey Kits and other resources.

https://www.bcna.org.au/resources/

BCNA Helpline 1800 500 258

If you have any questions, concerns or require any further information or support please call 1800 500 258. The Helpline is open Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9 am till 5 pm EST and Tuesday and Thursday from 9 am till 9 pm EST.

How to understand your pathology reports

https://www.cancer.org/treatment/understanding-your-diagnosis/tests/understanding-your-pathology-report/breast-pathology/breast-cancer-pathology.html

Also,
https://www.bcna.org.au/understanding-breast-cancer/types-of-breast-cancer/

and consider joining one of the groups for further information

https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/group/1-choosing-breast-reconstruction

There's a bit to absorb but once you have your My Journey Kit and taken a few deep breaths you will be able to better understand and others will come on here and help you through

Take care

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