Donna, I couldnt have put it better myself....and yes, my sense of humour is like yours, and I laughed at what you wrote too. I had long hair too, and it seems to be a common thing, we who didnt want to let go of the long hair, ended up with the extreme opposite. Pffffft, funny how life is hey Donna. I went through all the drama about the wig, and have been just wear girls beanies/ hats, and pulling it off when I get hot. Mind you I just go to appointments and am too tired to do much else. So not many people see me who arent going through sh..... themselves and totally understand. Also, the queen of make-up who wouldnt leave the house without it , I also head off each day for Radiation up the road and dont care. All I think is "No-one will recognised me anyway!" Which is amusing to me because no-one knows me anyway! (we moved here a year ago, and am only an expert of the hospitals and doctors offices). Time for a sleep! xx love Bel