I find I am now very dry on the outside, from this site I got the tip to put cold pressed virgin coconut oil on the outside, can be put inside as well, don't have to worry about oestrogens. It is also very cheap, unlike all the creams recommended on this site.
Because I had other issues with my uterus, as part of my treatment plan of having ovaries out I also decided to have cervix and uterus out as well. I was left to google the whole sex thing and I must say even on the net it is not talked about. It really was a wait and see process. Much to my relief it still works down there, the tiredness takes over and the opportunities are not a frequent but it does all get better with time.
Julie, I think your private group is wonderful, as sex is something that most don't feel comfortable or want to talk openly about, which on a site like this is a real shame. Lucky you have directed Lee to your group, still a pity that it has to be talked about in the closet.
Candy