No problem at all @roylej, we are all happy to help and offer support. Everyone here was so good to me when I really struggled with understanding everything going on. I guess one thing I have come to understand is just keep looking forward, you can have whatever you want to have now. My plastic surgeon really emphasised this to me. He said, ‘You haven’t had much control over things, but now you do and you get to have what you want. You tell us what you want/need.’ I use this to guide me. I have since had some lipografting around my implants - purely my decision as I felt my implants needed some ‘softening’ - and I am so happy I did it. You will need to advocate for yourself and make sure you have a very understanding team around you who ‘hear’ you. My team have always told me to make sure I am happy with the reconstruction as I will be looking at them for years to come. I am in the south of Brisbane. Feel free to message me. Take care 🌻
