Hi there, how great is it to be on the final part of your reconstruction journey? Glad to hear all is healing well. I didn't use a nipple guard - more a construction of protective dressings & gauze but I know lots of ladies use nipple shields with great success. Don't think there's any particular brand that's better, but given Rowdy's comment maybe one that is not quite so tall & pointy, lol!!
If you're a member of the Breast Reconstruction group you might want to check out the Nipple Reconstruction stories under the Topic List (you can find this list on the main / front page for the group). There are quite a few posts about this subject and great tips on protecting your new additions!
You might also want to check out the information about nipple reconstruction on the Reclaim Your Curves website: www.reclaimyourcurves.org.au/nipple-reconstruction.html
Most nipples do flatten out a bit over time. Mine is still slightly raised (12 months down the track) and visible if I'm not wearing a bra under a thin shirt. It is also feels soft. I wouldn't mind a bit more projection but at the same time I don't want the bother of more procedures just to get my headlights on high beam!
Best of luck with it all. Jane xx