Sisters (Daughters, Mothers, Girlfriends and all Women in your life)

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LeanneI
LeanneI Member Posts: 56
edited August 2011 in Day to day

After spending the 3 days at the Summit with all the inspiring women that attended, I thought this email that I received today was extremely apt.  Hope you enjoy it.


A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of
adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance
upon her daughter..

'Don't forget your sisters,' she advised,  swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass.
'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband,
no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to  need sisters.
Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them, talk with them..'

'Remember that 'sisters' means ALL the women...
your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 

'You'll need other women.  Women always do.'

What a  funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought.
Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup!
Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'

But she listened to her mother. She kept contact with her sisters and made more women friends each year.
As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mother really knew what she was talking about.
As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, sisters are the mainstays of her life.

THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time  passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.

Men don't do what they're supposed to  do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.

BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.  

A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself,
the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you,
pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end..

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and  carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters,  daughters-in-law, sisters,-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces,  cousins, and extended family: all bless our life!

The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.  

When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor did we know how much we would need each other..

Every day, we need each other still.

Share this with all the women who help make your life meaningful in whatever role they play.

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  • Leonie Moore
    Leonie Moore Member Posts: 1,470
    edited March 2015
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    Thanks Leeanne.  I am blessed to have 4 sisters, 2 daughters and 1 granddaughter (plus one very loving little grandson) and lots and lots of girlfriends. XLeonie

  • Cath.wal
    Cath.wal Member Posts: 11
    edited March 2015
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    Especially during this time I have come to appreciate the sisters in my life. They rally round, understand, care, support and offer courage and enable me to keep on going. Thank you for sharing this email Leeanne.
    Catherine