Being scared

Hi guys as most of you know my husband had a heart attack 3 weeks ago, well its been difficult coping with the mood swings and treading carefuly. ln the early hours this morning he tapped me on the shoulder, no girls not for that, but said lm so scared and then cried so hugs in the dark and lots of patting on the back.made me think l never the whole time during cancer told anyone l was scared l was but l didnt say it. so lm putting it out there girls lve been scared , l always hope bc stays away but really l should be saying lm scared cancer will come back, just had to say it. if a man can say it l should to. its ok to say lm scared
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Michelle xx
Take care xx
It doesn't make us less strong. Your husband sharing such personal fears shows the true intimacy in your relationship.
That's a lovely thing Adean.
Jane xx
PS as to if I was or am scared of breast cancer? I would be silly if I wasn't but constantly worrying about it won't make it any better so I just get on with it.
I am officially a one year breast cancer survivor now.
All we can do is live our lives to the fullest and some how find some positives and beauty in every day.
hope everyone is well today xx
Men, unfortunately, don't express as freely as women....he has had his own wake up call and along with your battle, he has realised the enormity of it all....and the fragility of life itself.......it takes a special someone to not only stand by you in such times, but admit and show their own emotions.....admitting you are scared doesn't make you weak, it makes you REAL......this is real! the emotions are real.....hang on to him as he hangs on to you.....you are meant to be....together your love WILL conquer all
Wishing you both beautiful days and easy recovery