Of course it's OK! and scared is a light word.....my hubby said to someone who referred to this as our "journey", "this is no journey! It's the f#$%ing, scariest nightmare! a "journey" is pleasant!" I am petrified that I will have reoccurrance....we will forever be looking over our shoulders....
Men, unfortunately, don't express as freely as women....he has had his own wake up call and along with your battle, he has realised the enormity of it all....and the fragility of life itself.......it takes a special someone to not only stand by you in such times, but admit and show their own emotions.....admitting you are scared doesn't make you weak, it makes you REAL......this is real! the emotions are real.....hang on to him as he hangs on to you.....you are meant to be....together your love WILL conquer all <3
Wishing you both beautiful days and easy recovery