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Chorsell
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10 years ago

Getting my zen back

Hi all

Do you sometimes get overwhelmed? I know for me there are times when everything is just a bit too much and I struggle.  Maybe it was precipitated this time with my second 6mth check-up.  My beast surgeon was extremely complementary about my recon and gave me the all clear for 12 months... I should be happy right. 

I am also often saddened by news that other BC women are not doing as well as we would like. 

I think once you have been diagnosed with BC you also can be a bit consumed by it ... And even though my treatment is done and from an external perspective I look the same .. There is something that is different and I am struggling to find my new normal.

so on the weekend I took the opportunity to go to the river Murray on a friends houseboat to find my 'zen' or 'mojo' - it is one of my favorite things to do and it works every time.

So I am feeling revived again - pity I had to go to work today :-(

Just make sure you are all giving your self the time and space to do those special things that make you feel happy - 

hugs to all

chris

9 Replies

  • Jane221's avatar
    Jane221
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Chris, there's nothing like spending time in a favourite place with a great group of friends to clear your head. Glad you managed what looks like a very special break away & hopefully you've kept your mojo intact on your return to work and the everyday stuff. Cheers, Jane xx

  • Kazzi's avatar
    Kazzi
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Chorsell, I'm still in treatment, just started rads yesterday after surgeries and chemo.  I've often wondered what life is like post treatment and not sure yet what my new normal is.  Thanks for your honest post, and I love that pic.

    Karen xx

     

  • Chorsell's avatar
    Chorsell
    Member
    10 years ago

    It can be a struggle sometimes hey Rowdy - the gift that keeps on giving huh xxx

  • Anonymous's avatar
    Anonymous
    10 years ago

    Thanks Chris, I've just been set free after finishing surgery, chemo and finished rads on Friday. Now I can move forward, I've found that I'm a bit muddled about where to start, even though I have lots of plans and things to achieve. I've chosen to take the time for my skin to heal, and to concentrate on getting myself organised. Good on you for taking time to smell the roses, and enjoy your time on the river. You've inspired me, Trace ????????

  • rowdy's avatar
    rowdy
    Member
    10 years ago

    Hi Chris this is so true, other people who have not gone down this s trip don't understand. I have  good and bad days. I push myself because bc has changed my life but it is not going to take over.

    Every day I remind myself that life is to enjoy, I laugh and look for the positives as there are many.

    I also love the Murray, I always find peace in such a beautiful place. Sending hugsxxx

  • mum2jj's avatar
    mum2jj
    Member
    10 years ago

    Needed to read this today. Love you girlfriend

    Paula xxxxx