Waiting for periods to return after chemo
Hello, i am now 7 months post chemo and am 31 yrs old and there is no sign of my periods returning. My oncologist did say that my chances of them returning as I am under 40 are higher but they could take up to a year or even longer for them to return. A few months back I didn’t care as I was almost sure that I didn’t want children but now I do want children one day and I would hate to think my periods are never returning ! is anyone else in a similiar situation as me ? also, does me technically being in “menopause” mean I can’t get pregnant if I have unprotected sex?
Hot & Sweaty
Hello. I've just finished 4 rounds of chemo, had my mastectomy in January. I was wondering when the hot flushes stopped for anyone else? It's only been 2wks, but today it felt like I was constantly in a flush...more then usual. I'm 41, haven't had children yet so a fertility specialist put me on a special nasel spray that basically put my ovaries to sleep during the chemo, I'm sure this added to the flushes. I guess I'm just looking for a light at the end of my tunnel! Thank u. Peace & Love x
Newbie, 27, no kids, HER2+ Breast Cancer
Hi, I'm new on here and just wanted to introduce myself. I'm 27, have a loving partner, no kids, and on the 11th of October I found a 7mm diameter lump in my right breast. It was diagnosed quickly as aggressive HER2 receptor amplified Stage 1/1A breast cancer. It has been caught incredibly early, and I'm so so thankful. I've just had my second chemo cycle of 6, and this time round they put a porta cath in. I'm finding the healing of the port quite uncomfortable and very restrictive - is this normal? I've been checking my temperature but no worrying signs there. Following chemo will be the lumpectomy, radiation, a year of herceptin and then tamoxifen. Generally I've been feeling quite isolated in terms of my age and breast cancer, though every person's story has been a help in some way. My partner and I had the immediate shock of discussing fertility and having to make a snap decision. We didn't opt for IVF as it was too expensive and I wasn't at a great point in my cycle anyway (delaying chemo was a big no go for me). Given my age the doctors seem to think Zoladex should keep my fertility protected - but oh my goodness those injections! Dreading my next one next week!! I know it's worth it though. I'm focusing on staying positive, and have mostly been managing really well, but for some reason this cycle round I'm finding it harder. I have an amazing support network around me, and yet I find myself trying to protect them from what I'm feeling. Hoping to hear if anyone's going through similar feelings or is in a similar situation. All the best x
Tamoxifen & Pregnancy after BC
Once again I have let a lot of time pass between posting. Whoops! My main excitement? I was told I was allowed to take Tamoxifen for only 2 years I have started my countdown to finishing it. 10 Months to go! Whoohooo!! I have been still getting hot flushes but they are no where near as frequent thank goodness. My hair is growing but I cant seem to get it past this horrible mullet stage! Only this week I have started to wear headbands. Feel like a little kid wearing them but it keeps it out of my eyes so worth feeling a bit silly. My feet have been aching badly each morning and if I sit still for too long which I think is related to Tamoxifen. I take my pill at dinner time so decided to switch it to morning to see if that helps. Have read that Tamoxifen is at it peak strength in your system 7 hours after taking it so hoping that being more active rather than asleep at this point helps my feet as it seems to be a circulation thing. I also just read though all my past posts and noticed that I never mentioned the one thing that was/is stressing me the most after treatment. Waiting to see if the medical induced menopause was permanent. I thought that I was putting everything down in this blog and leaving it out is such a massive oversight. Funny how the subconscious works. The idea that I may not be able to have children now really hurts (massive understatement) and during this time I have had 4 friends become pregnant/have children. I am really genuinely happy for them but it also pokes at my sore spot majorly. When I finally got to meet one of my friends baby I didnt hold her as I didnt want to burst into tears on them! Getting better around babies by just not thinking about it. Waiting to see if my period came back was stressing me out and stress can cause periods to stop in normal circumstances so I was stressing over stressing about it! It finally came back (9 months after finishing chemo) and has been regular BUT I know others in the same boat havent had any luck on the getting pregnant front. Just knowing that my body is trying to get back to normal has helped massively but I still have that uncertainty hanging over me. All up I dont think of cancer very often. It still bugs me to hear it on tv/internet too frequently but not as much as before. I have started gardening and finding it really relaxing and enjoyable. Planning on going sky diving next month and have a ticket in the U.S.A's draw tonight for 1.4 Billion...... oh the things I could do with that! :) Thanks for letting me vent here xoNewbie, 27, no kids, HER2+ Breast Cancer
Hi, I'm new on here and just wanted to introduce myself. I'm 27, have a loving partner, no kids, and on the 11th of October I found a 7mm diameter lump in my right breast. It was diagnosed quickly as aggressive HER2 receptor amplified Stage 1/1A breast cancer. It has been caught incredibly early, and I'm so so thankful. I've just had my second chemo cycle of 6, and this time round they put a porta cath in. I'm finding the healing of the port quite uncomfortable and very restrictive - is this normal? I've been checking my temperature but no worrying signs there. Following chemo will be the lumpectomy, radiation, a year of herceptin and then tamoxifen. Generally I've been feeling quite isolated in terms of my age and breast cancer, though every person's story has been a help in some way. My partner and I had the immediate shock of discussing fertility and having to make a snap decision. We didn't opt for IVF as it was too expensive and I wasn't at a great point in my cycle anyway (delaying chemo was a big no go for me). Given my age the doctors seem to think Zoladex should keep my fertility protected - but oh my goodness those injections! Dreading my next one next week!! I know it's worth it though. I'm focusing on staying positive, and have mostly been managing really well, but for some reason this cycle round I'm finding it harder. I have an amazing support network around me, and yet I find myself trying to protect them from what I'm feeling. Hoping to hear if anyone's going through similar feelings or is in a similar situation. All the best x