Tips on working and treatment
Hi all, I will be starting Chemo soon which will be followed up with more surgery and then radiation. I know l will have moments where l will be tired/sick and anything else that goes with it. I joined this group in the hope of getting tips/advice from anyone that worked through out treatment when possible.
I'm a workaholic - if I don't, who will?
Oft described as a workaholic, it is both a blessing and a curse to have an excellent work ethic. I have a pretty big job because of it and I manage to finance our lives because as a solo parent I have to. A big job means people rely on me to be effective. Diagnosed just yesterday, all the scary stuff ahead, and out pops from my mouth... what about my work? Give it some context... I am a solo parent with 2 boys age 12 and 15. I have a partner in life for the last 3 years, who lives 2.5 hours away so our time together is weekends as we concentrate on our own children. (He is amazing btw). Their dad (my ex) continues his struggle with alcoholism, depression and living in another state on welfare so he's no help and hasn't been for a very long time. It is not that I am in love with working so much, it is that by working hard I can support my children and give them a reasonably normal life. I have been responsible for the raising of my children financially and emotionally (the ride hasn't been that great) for quite a while now and I have an overwhelming sense of responsibility. I've read and will re-read the information on working, however I can't seem to get out of my brain chatter... If I can't work to support them, who will? Am I truly gone mad? It's only day one I know... thanks for listening :)
Applying for jobs & disclosing treatment
Hi, After a year of treatment for metastatic IBC, I need to urgently return to work. There is no way I could spend another year without an income. my question is; How do I disclose that I have metastatic cancer and need to attend monthly appointments, without it affecting my chances of getting a job. Also, my doctor has put limitations on what I can and cannot do, but I am only qualified to do the ‘cannot’ stuff. Should I just bite the bullet and start at the bottom of the career ladder again or lie to continue my career path knowing I could damage my bones. I feel embarrassed that I am in this position and cannot provide for my family. Our quality of life is at the lowest we have ever experienced. How do I make memories for my children if I can barely afford to feed them. Thank you
Job hunting. What do you, or don't you, say?
I've had to find a new job since my cancer came back. Luckily, I got head hunted by someone who knew me from my previous life, but prior to that I was sick with worry about how, and when, I let perspective employers know I was a right bag of tricks who was going to be a bit high maintenance and likely to use up most of her sick leave just attending appointments. I'd like to see a few phrases that could be used when introducing this delicate topic. When do you tell them? My feeling would be leave it until you actually have an offer of employment. If the offer is subsequently withdrawn, that's adverse action which is covered by general protections. No one wants to go down that track, but it is illegal to discriminate. Thoughts? Marg
Managing the cost of breast cancer webcast: tips and resources
Hi everyone, BCNA are holding a webcast on Thursday 16 September, 7:00 pm – 8:00 pm AEST on managing the cost of breast cancer: tips and resources. For many people with breast cancer, the financial costs associated with treatment and care can be substantial. General day-to-day expenses continue, while you may also have to pay for specialist appointments, tests and scans, medicines and other treatments, counselling, travel and so on. If you're unable to continue in paid work, the loss of income can also contribute to financial pressure on you and your family. Even when treatment is finished, you may still struggle financially, or you may face the longer-term impacts of ongoing care. For some people, getting by financially is no easy task, even at the best of times. Money worries can have a big impact on how you and your family cope. Informed financial consent requires people to have information about costs and support to make informed decisions about their care. We will hear from Financial Counsellor at Cancer Council Victoria, Antony Mitchell who has a community focus and experience with working with a number of not for profits, and BCNA Consumer Representative Jodie Lydeker who was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer 3 years ago, and detected again in 2021. Jodie will share insight into her lived experience of the financial stress associated with the disease. In this webcast we will explore managing the costs of breast cancer including informed financial consent, public vs private healthcare, hidden and common out-of-pocket costs, questions to ask your healthcare provider, financial wellbeing, career impacts, issues for those who live in rural and remote areas and the resources and support available to you. To register, please follow this link, https://www.bcna.org.au/webcasts-new/managing-the-cost-of-breast-cancer-webcast-tips-and-resources/ Event Details When: Thursday, 16 September 2021 What Time: 07:00 PM AEST - 08:00 PM AEST Local Times: - WA: 5:00 PM - NT, SA: 6:30 PM - QLD, ACT, NSW, TAS, VIC: 7:00 PM
4+ years on and work
Hi, I’m interested to hear how others are coping with work years after treatment. I had chemo/radio and now on medication (aromasin). I have struggled attempting to work full time and will commence working a 4 day week soon. How do you cope? I look forward to hearing from you all x
Work post chemo fatigue
Sorry all if your seeing this again. I posted in general discussions too. Im not sure what to do or how to Ive worked all rhe way through chemo Due to finances. I furnished chemo in july had surgery in August Ive strated a new position on contract for 1 more month, slight chance of extension. May revert back to previous position. 4 pay increments down. Thing is im actually feeling fatigued. Almost like on chemo. I have no energy its getting worse each day and its making life tough. I don't know what to do. Im worried its going to get worse. Im suprised as i though continue to feel better not worse im still on herceptin. Due to start taximlifen this week. I dont want to risk losing this contract. I don't know if its too late to apply as the cancer is gone or if i could afford to take mortgate insurance at 75%. Pay. I might not afford the house. I feel like if i work i can't have a life. I think just needed to offload as i dont want to get streseed but if anyone has ideas id love it. Im struggling with wishing my body was like before. Anyway thanks
Welcome
Welcome - Thank you for joining this online group! My name is Michelle and I’m a Program Coordinator at BCNA. My main focus is to drive a new Work and Breast Cancer program. This program aims to increase the capacity of both employees and employers to support employment following a diagnosis of breast cancer. In 2016 BCNA conducted research to identify gaps in information and support in the workplace for both employees and employers following a diagnosis of breast cancer. This program will deliver a range of support initiatives to fill these gaps and will include resources, an advisory (information and referral) telephone service and peer to peer discussions within BCNA’s online network. How can you help with this program? We’re wanting to start discussions within the online network around work and breast cancer. To do this we want to hear your experiences – good or challenging! We want to build a list of key challenges, inform discussions and build a network of online champions on the topic of work and breast cancer. If you feel comfortable – we would love for you share your experience of breast cancer and work with us? Did you have challenges relating to your employment? Did you have a very supportive employer? Were you self-employed? Do you have tips for others going through this now? I look forward to hearing from you and reading your experience in the comments below. You can also contact me on mwhittingham@bcna.org.au or 1800 500 258. MichelleBreast cancer costs Australian women and the wider community billions in lost work hours and wages
A new first-of-its-kind study has revealed that of the estimated 10,732 working-age Australian women diagnosed with breast cancer in 2022, they will collectively lose a projected AU$1.4 billion in wage earnings over the 10-year period post diagnosis, Read the full article HereThe Beacon article - Transitioning back to work after breast cancer treatment
Hello group members, The most recent issue of The Beacon features an article on the topic of work and breast cancer (attached). You can view the full issue of The Beacon via the link https://www.bcna.org.au/news-events/the-beacon-magazine/issue-93-december-2022/
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About Work and breast cancer
This public group connects members around the topics related to employment and breast cancer.
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