@Lythe - I hope your hubby had a great birthday & that you were able to enjoy it too. I am so sorry that your sister has been diagnosed as well at the same time .... maybe you need your family genome checked to see if it is going to be a genetic thing with close family members?
You've been thru some hard yards with the chemo & now waiting for the results of your surgery ..... it sucks. It doesn't really get any easier, any time, waiting for results! I went private & still had to wait more than 2 weeks for my results (and pay $500 out of pocket as well!) ..... We all have fingers & toes crossed for your results xxxx
I just kept myself as busy as I could, with things that I loved doing (pre op) & was able to do (post op.) Just do what is right for YOU. And that is the rule from now on. ;)
Once you get your results, you'll have your game plan all mapped out - so you'll know where you are heading.
Take care, all the best for your results xx