Hey MelanieHello to you. I am glad you have found us.I hear you when you say everyone seems to get pleasure from telling you all the horror stories from their long last aunt or granma and it is like hello do I really need to hear all this crap but they honestyly believe they are helping. Hello helping who???? themselves, yes maybe but not you. I agree that side of this journey sucks but I really think the majority of people mean well but just don't really know what the hell to say.Where are you living? Do you have the BCNA My Journey Kit? Do you have a support Group you can relate to? Do you have friends and family to support you through this? We are here for you to chat to or vent or to voice your frustrations or fears or anything else you need us for.Just give a yell and we will be here for you.Lots of love always, Mich xoxoxoo