Brrrrr cold there i'm thinking..... Sorry to hear your news and yep "you'll be fine" the most commong annoying statemnt eh.... when people said that to me i would think how do you know i'll be fine when the doctors cant tell me i will be, BUT unfortunately until you've been on the journey you really have no clues, then you get the ones who ask how you are, and proceed to tell you what a bad day they are having. you have come to the right place here, we have so many women (and men) who are going through or have been through the journey, At first its all a blur, but once you get on thr wheel of treatment, it does settle down for a while, the main thing is to take care of yourself, and make time for you, unfortunately this is a time when you will find your real friends, so come on here any time and rant, rave or smile and chat, no question is stupid, so although we cant give you medical advice we can give you moral support. Take Care, please let us know how you are doing... Regards Moira