@Sister, I write things down myself (I'm 42) but haven't written down the pros and cons with this decision. I shall though. I still have 3 weeks of chemo to complete then 6 - 8 weeks before surgery. My breast care nurse is fantastic (4 yrs ago the McGrath nurse I had was awful and caused a lot of anxiety to the point she no longer works there). My current breast nurse is absolutely beautiful and she has also offered to organise others who've had these surgeries to have a chat to me. I'm lucky my partner is so supportive and comes to all of my appointments so anything I forget, he remembers.
Thankyou for your words of wisdom. š