Hi Kathleen, I have the same problem and will be very interested to hear how you go! 5 years ago the Orthopaedic Surgeon advised a shoulder replacement due to damaged rotator cuff, torn tendon, and bone-on-bone arthritis. Then breast cancer happened and it was all put on hold for 5 years. Physiotherapy with stretch bands helped initially, then bc exercises, but now I am looking at surgery to fix it once and for all. My GP advised me to hold off awhile as there is amazing stem cell research going on. Meanwhile I cope very well - guess I am used to it after all this time and make allowances! Which state are you in?