If I have learned anything over the years is that we are all human, and that we all react differently to stress, and cancer is a doozie. My son is very shy but has demonstrated the kindest heart that I have ever seen. He does not know what to do or say. I tell him every time that we speak that I love him. Being a compulsive cook, I work on the theory that you feed em and love em and that's all you can do. The most important thing for me is to convey love and to be grateful for all the little joys along the way.. Sending you a big cuddle, Trace ??♥???