@"Butterfly 40" I love the trailer of the stuff!!! LOL I went public for this op, but Im used to going private, there was a pretty big difference I have to say. I luckily only shared a ward with 1 other lady and she was a 'Scream' honestly she was about 60 and had a double mastectomy/diep flap recon and was amazing!! We whinged and grunted together haha!!! she was great company! I did however sleep in the recliner as I couldnt manage the bed and purely due to the tummy wound. So I bought a recliner in readiness haha! and slept in that at home the first 4 nights I think lol...how we get through these things is amazing!!! Nikki has certainly managed the whole thing better than what I initially did, but I think now we are abreast of it hahaha!!! doing really well. Hang in there!! youre doing great :) Big hugs Melinda xo