Hey I was just straight up with my older boys who are 6 and 10 I also have a 2 yr old I just told them that the medican I will be receiving will make my hair fall out and I might get sick but so far no sickness I got a wig which I wear when I'm out n about and go bald or beanies at home I did have my 10 yr old ask if I was dieing so I was straight up tellin him no this medican is killing the nasty cells which can't be seen ( bone n ct scan clear) he was ok plus I also asked my oncologist aswell for my oldest boy he reassured me that women with my type life Healthlyi lives the older boys gave taken it well they loved cutting my hair my partner shaved it I had ac chemo first up by memory I think cycle 3 and cycle 4 I had to inject myself (nurse did I couldn't do it) as my white cells went low I'm now onto herception and another one which I started today I asked today if I could take multivitamin just to help they said I could . This cycle I have bloods next week before treatment to check levels I'm also on tablets to keep my blood pressure down I also get heart ultrasounds because I have a murmer so they keep a eye on that for me. Good luck with ure treatments