Don't worry @Fernweh sometimes our determination gets flown out the window in the beginning as we in a whirlwind, and need to gather our team. Thankfully you took that step and got in touch with your surgeon by email today. I am all for not being complacent when it comes to our health concerns. Too late if you didn't make contact today and dreaded tomorrow's surgery. I hope some of us didn't come across as too pushy, but I believe you were not happy until you had more discussions with your surgeon. Now you have a new surgery date, yippee, and some breathing space. :)
@FLClover is a good role model for helping people to get their determination back in tact. :)