Making The Hard Decisions

Thank you all for your great comments, has helped.  I have been lucky to have my wonderful husband drive me so I don't have to focus on driving (don't need an accident on top of it), some of our appointments are an hour and half away at the sunshine coast.  He has been wonderfully supportive and so have my two children (even though one is in Perth), I also am part of a couple of groups of ladies who have also been wonderfully supportive and offered meals, driving and anything else I need or want or I need to do is call them.  Some have also been down the breast cancer road but most of them are over 10 years so some of the information is a little dated but their support has been amazing.  Unfortunately my breast care nurse is away but I got hold of another one yesterday from the sunshine coast hospital and she was wonderful.  I have giving a lot of thought to the information given as once you have a mastectomy you can't go back where as if you have a lumpectomy you can progress to a mastectomy if things don't go well.  I am off to the MRI guided biopsy tomorrow so hopefully get some more definitive information.  They are bringing in the big guns to do the biopsy tomorrow since the mishap with the operation, they have doubled their efforts to ensure I am looked after, so that has been great.  Thanks again to everyone I feel so much better about this.