Even now, even though my breasts look OK after reconstruction, and I have nipples and tattooing, I think I could get changed in a public place, like a shopping centre, without anyone seeing my naked body.
It is just me and my need for discretion.
Some of tbe other ladies at aquarobics strip down to nothing. That is not for me. I have sisters and went to an all girl school but, in public, I am very discrete.
Not all older male doctors are so insensitive.
Although, one of my friends, whose mum died from breast cancer, was asked why she needed breasts at her age. She is not in a relationship.