@"Bon Bon" How horrible. What a sad story & I'm sure that has impacted you & your decision. I am struggling with my decision on what comes next in regard to a mastectomy or not, if my result is positive but I do not want to go through what my mum did as she suffered for 6 1/2 yrs before passing away at 46 y.o.. I was only 4 y.o. so I don't even remember her but can only imagine the trauma it had on my dad having to then raise 2 girls aged 4 & 7 when she passed away. I would get them out in a heart beat to save my family going through what my Dad went through. Good Luck with your decision & let us know what you decide. hugs xx