This sight becomes such a supportive place to air your fears and concerns , sometimes the family just dont get it, as much as they love us the ladies here are the ones who are in the same boat. No one is judgemental and everyone seems to know what to say. I found the amazing thing was suddenly I wasnt the only one , my first day at Peter mac I went to the car and shook and shook, and thought I HAVE BC it wasnt till then it really hit me and then I said you BARS---- your not gonna get me.I have my first scans next week 10 months since diagnosis and treatment and think where on earth has the time gone. yet at the beggining I didnt think Id see light at the end. Wishing you all the best A dean