Thanks for all your replies,I just spoke with my counsellor who is going to get my bc nurse to call me. I really want a second opinion because of the size of the tumour and the grade of it. I also had never met with an onc so just feel as though I have been rushed through everything and don't want to take any chances,my surgeon has made me feel as though I should already know everything and referred me straight to his wife who is doing my reconstruction and mastectomy on left side at the same time.all of this has happened in the last ten weeks so very confusing xxx