Drains

Hi all, I am healing well I think but my drain fell out after 2 days and I am feeling lots of pressure from fluid build up. Had some aspirated on Friday but they couldn't get any out from under my arm or shoulder side. Hubby was trying so hard to be helpful and unfortunately knelt on my drain and pulled it most of the way out. I have never seen him so upset, poor thing. Have tried to put on my mastectomy bra but as I have one large breast left, it pulls across, is uncomfortable, lopsided and looks ridiculous. Why did this never occur to me? I am now stuck in the house as my remaining large boob sort of dangles down and my flat side is soooo obvious no matter how I layer it! I am sore, swollen and miserable. Oh boy, I am having a whinge aren't i? Any advice as to how to get my sense of humour back before any possible treatment starts?