Hi Lorraine, it certainly sounds as though you've made the right decision for you. It's weird, but once you've been diagnosed with breast cancer all sorts of people decide that they need to pass on their opinions about what you should or shouldn't be doing. This whole ordeal can be confusing and overwhelming enough without these "experts", so I tended to say "ok thanks but my dr/medical team have said that xxx would work best in my case." Having said that, I do appreciate hearing from others who have been down this path and happy to talk about their experiences, something this site is so good at. Jane xx