Thanks to my responders. I had the lumpectomy and then decided it was too boring and got a fierce cold and asthma afterwards, feeling really crap. Only just starting to feel a bit more normal and can breathe much better, cough is drying up. So glad I had my surgery at least, imagine if it was delayed!
Get my results next Tuesday, fingers crossed. Wound seeming OK but my boob is coming out in all the colours from the bruising. I will research the mepital and strata X stuff if I need rad ther. If I have to do chemo, will run a mile... never again